http://www.whydestiny.com/?p=456 Fri, 24 Apr 2026 13:14:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 http://www.whydestiny.com/?p=456&cpage=1#comment-33526 Zineb Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.whydestiny.com/?p=456#comment-33526 ... "I know the Korean attitude twaord whites and blacks. It's very sophisticated."Indeed.I've learned a lot of general rules about a certain subset of white guy on this site, and one of them is this:White guys who are generally awkward and unsuccessful with women, AND arrogant and feel a sense of loss at not being able to live in Norman Rockwell America (I would say a fair number of Steve's readers) spend a lot of time looking for a magical Shangri-La somewhere in which the local, non white, non-black beauty queens, fall all over white guys in the street, and are totally disgusted by black guys. I say good luck finding that because I don't believe it exists; at least no where I've been. Yes, and I have learned that there is a certain subset of Black and Brown (Hacienda?) guys who post on this site who fantasize that if they just went to some Yellow land populated by Asian beauties and not populated by Whitey, all the women will come flocking, none of the women's parents will object, and their career will have no impediments because of their race (because evil Whitey is not around and therefore evil racism doesn't exist it only exists in the U.S., not in Asia).Sorry, I've got news for you. Such a place doesn't exist. There are racists in Asia too. (okay maybe Thailand, but I have never been there so I can't say for sure).Sorry to bust your bubble. Hacienda said... Handsome Accomplished White Guy, It's not about my self-esteem. It's about the universal desire to knock and cocky, pretender of his perch.First, no truly accomplished male brags about scoring with Asian women. So you must by your own accounting be handsome. And what loser insinuates that he is handsome on a semi-intellectual blog like this? An ESL teacher, maybe? Hmmmm? Is that how you're really scoring? Wow, Dude I really struck a nerve with you. You need help really. Or you need to get out more. I mean you can't accept the fact that women, all over the world, prefer handsome intelligent high achieving guys over those who are not? I was merely making observation which I thought was a universally recognized truth. The point being if you are a loser in the eyes of a woman (fat, bald, poor, out of shape, poorly educated, socially inept, etc .. take your pick) don't expect the same treatment over there or anywhere. I had no idea it was going to upset you so. However, the fact that you are so bothered by it tells me you must be a Beta or seriously repressed, because the idea of some guy with swagger who enjoys life and women somehow really bothers you. Sorry, I use to think that stuff was B.S. but only a Beta (or a Puritan) could get unraveled by the idea that someone somewhere was having more fun than him. I've got a news flash for you (because apparently you missed the 20th century) not all women are innocent damsels in distress who need protection from big bad wolves. They also enjoy sex and they have a mind of their own. I am pretty sure at least one Feminist professor told me that in a class once when I was an undergrad. Imagine that. Once you realize this you will have a lot more fun and probably do a lot better with women. And no, enjoying the company of women doesn't mean you have to be a complete sybarite, but foregoing their company means missing out on a large part of what makes live worth living. And no, it was not as an ESL teacher but someone from elite schools with two advanced degrees Sorry to bust your little fantasy . Now get back to your Dungeons and Dragons games or however it is you to amuse yourself. … “I know the Korean attitude twaord whites and blacks. It’s very sophisticated.”Indeed.I’ve learned a lot of general rules about a certain subset of white guy on this site, and one of them is this:White guys who are generally awkward and unsuccessful with women, AND arrogant and feel a sense of loss at not being able to live in Norman Rockwell America (I would say a fair number of Steve’s readers) spend a lot of time looking for a magical Shangri-La somewhere in which the local, non white, non-black beauty queens, fall all over white guys in the street, and are totally disgusted by black guys. I say good luck finding that because I don’t believe it exists; at least no where I’ve been. Yes, and I have learned that there is a certain subset of Black and Brown (Hacienda?) guys who post on this site who fantasize that if they just went to some Yellow land populated by Asian beauties and not populated by Whitey, all the women will come flocking, none of the women’s parents will object, and their career will have no impediments because of their race (because evil Whitey is not around and therefore evil racism doesn’t exist it only exists in the U.S., not in Asia).Sorry, I’ve got news for you. Such a place doesn’t exist. There are racists in Asia too. (okay maybe Thailand, but I have never been there so I can’t say for sure).Sorry to bust your bubble. Hacienda said… Handsome Accomplished White Guy, It’s not about my self-esteem. It’s about the universal desire to knock and cocky, pretender of his perch.First, no truly accomplished male brags about scoring with Asian women. So you must by your own accounting be handsome. And what loser insinuates that he is handsome on a semi-intellectual blog like this? An ESL teacher, maybe? Hmmmm? Is that how you’re really scoring? Wow, Dude I really struck a nerve with you. You need help really. Or you need to get out more. I mean you can’t accept the fact that women, all over the world, prefer handsome intelligent high achieving guys over those who are not? I was merely making observation which I thought was a universally recognized truth. The point being if you are a loser in the eyes of a woman (fat, bald, poor, out of shape, poorly educated, socially inept, etc .. take your pick) don’t expect the same treatment over there or anywhere. I had no idea it was going to upset you so. However, the fact that you are so bothered by it tells me you must be a Beta or seriously repressed, because the idea of some guy with swagger who enjoys life and women somehow really bothers you. Sorry, I use to think that stuff was B.S. but only a Beta (or a Puritan) could get unraveled by the idea that someone somewhere was having more fun than him. I’ve got a news flash for you (because apparently you missed the 20th century) not all women are innocent damsels in distress who need protection from big bad wolves. They also enjoy sex and they have a mind of their own. I am pretty sure at least one Feminist professor told me that in a class once when I was an undergrad. Imagine that. Once you realize this you will have a lot more fun and probably do a lot better with women. And no, enjoying the company of women doesn’t mean you have to be a complete sybarite, but foregoing their company means missing out on a large part of what makes live worth living. And no, it was not as an ESL teacher but someone from elite schools with two advanced degrees Sorry to bust your little fantasy . Now get back to your Dungeons and Dragons games or however it is you to amuse yourself.

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